We often get asked if we used the law of attraction to find each other and so we will tell you the truth here:
Part of the reason we wrote our book “Romance in Cyberspace“ was to give people the answer to this question but in the book we don’t just answer it we actually tell the story of what we both did, what we both thought before and after we met and how it came to be that two complete strangers from very different backgrounds eventually came together in love and we let you decide for yourself.
You see many couples where the woman is from Thailand and the man is from the West be it England, America or Australia ( in this case Dean was from England but lived in Australia) meet because the man will go to Thailand on holiday and fall in love with a pretty Thai girl half his age and then take her back to his country to get married. There are many stories of this scenario, many of which don’t turn out to be too good…but that’s another story.
The other scenario is they meet on some dating site and pretty much the same thing happens. This is the normal way and you will most likely have heard many of the horror stories out there too. This is not really the law of Attraction at work in a positive way…it is still at work but in a more negative way.
Ok, so on with the post because in this case non of that happened. Also Angella is almost the same age as Dean and neither were actually looking for each other…or at least they were not consciously aware of that.
You see when you know what both Dean and Angella did before they met and also right at the beginning of their meeting online you will probably decide they were both using the law of attraction. Things like writing down their ideal partner, removing emotional blocks from past relationships and dreaming of and even visualizing the type of relationship they both wanted, believing it would happen but then detaching from the outcome by getting on with life are all techniques that the Guru law of Attraction experts say you should do. However, none of this was actually done with quite that purpose in mind.
Another funny thing is that Dean was actually quite ‘au fait’ with the law of attraction but did not have the purpose to use it to find a woman as he did not think it would happen for a few years. He wrote down his idea of his perfect partner, even had a picture in his mind as well as the kind of emotion he wanted to feel but then he let go of all expectation and wanting…. which is classic detachment and law of attraction technique.
Angella had very little learned knowledge of the law of attraction because in Thailand although the book “The Secret” was available the law of attraction was not a widely known concept and of course it was initially all in English. Yet she had instinctively been using those techniques for years in her life without knowing what they were called. She had a firm belief in her heart and mind that Mr Right would find her and she again practiced detachment by not expecting and Mr right did in fact find her…..although the exact circumstances were somewhat of a surprise, but you will need to read the story to find out what happened there.
So what this means is that both Angella and Dean did use the law of attraction but not purposely to find each other which allowed them to be slightly detached from the outcome. Both acted mainly on intuition and by following their heart which is of course all part of the law of attraction, and when they finally did confess their feelings for each other they took inspired action to make things happen in reality.
So does the law of attraction work in love and relationships? It sure does and you can take plenty from Our Story to show you the best way to apply it and find love for yourself. But we have found the key to this is in taking action especially if you meet online like we did. You need to make things happen that will move the relationship forward. To often we hear of people meeting online and they take too long to meet each other and then it all fizzles out and that is so sad. How many opportunities for love are lost that way?
We both wish you love, hope and inspiration in attracting a loving and fulfilling relationship.